We’re going home … going back. By July of this year, my husband and I will have uprooted from the Westside of our state to the Eastside …. home for me.
My mom’s health is calling us back. And we’re ready. Small towns, rural living, long commutes that mean actually driving … at the speed limit, even … rather than sucking in the fumes of a sea of cars frozen in front of us.
It’s strange of course, to return to the place where I spent my teen years thinking of little other than leaving. For several years now, we’ve made “back home” our vacation spot, each time finding it harder to go back to the city. Some things on the Westside will be hard to leave of course, but we’re ready.
The pictures below are from Colfax, WA, Whitman County’s seat. It’s not where we’ll live, but where my mom is currently getting care. As a kid, Colfax felt like the big city to me. It still had a J.C. Penney, three or four drug stores, and was where I took my driver’s test. It was terrifying to have to drive guided by stop lights rather than stop signs and where more than one lane of traffic was moving the same direction. And of course, the dreaded parallel parking. My high school driver’s ed teacher (yes, I’m so old that we still had drivers ed in school) had no “city” curbs or stop lights to his avail.
Colfax was home of my first “Teen Burger” (although I always liked the “Mama Burger” best) and frothy root beer at the A&W, now a Zips. The town was host to county basketball tournaments, so a hub of excitement for all the area teens from tiny rural schools who could now gather in one place and gawk at each other. And it boasted the country library which commissioned its Bookmobile to the area farm communities. There was no greater excitement in my life than seeing the Bookmobile cruise into town. I always had at least one book on order … it was Christmas on wheels for me!
In mid-March, a text from my brother shifted my focus to Colfax. Mom was in the hospital there. We thought it would be a quick visit to address a blood pressure issue. It turned out more serious, and she’s still there, now in a rehab and skilled nursing center … still with plans to bring her back home when I move back.
So, in the last five weeks, I’ve spent maybe as much time in Colfax as added up during my all of my high school years. There’s only one drug store now, and the JC Penney building sits vacant as do more store fronts than one likes to admit. But Eddie’s, the Chinese Restaurant, is still there, and the local flower shop and the library. There are antique and collectible stores, including my new favorite, Bully for You.
My hangout became Fonk’s Coffee Shop. It used to be home to Fonk’s Drugstore, but has been fashionably refurbished into a cute eatery. (Be sure to check out the picture of its bathroom in the photos below … if you ever go there, you MUST ask to use the restroom. Same with the floral shop … I told them they should offer a tour of the town’s restrooms because they’re pretty incredible. Just wish I had taken more and better pictures.)
So … in that first week that Mom was in the hospital, I escaped to Fonks a few times, contemplating what used to be, while dreaming of what is to come in our soon-to-be-upon-us new life. It’s a crazy life … but one filled with anticipation for me … moving back to move forward. Bring it on!



Of all the “finds” in Colfax … this stature in front one of the town’s churches put all the messages bubbling in my heart into perspective. This centuries’ old event speaks of my past and dictates my future. Wherever I go, whatever I am tasked to do, whichever season of life … the love of God reaches out and carries me. I am grateful.
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ABOUT THE PHOTOS ON MY SITE: ALL PHOTOS ON RASHELLBUD, UNLESS NOTED, ARE MY OWN. THE HEADING THIS TIME WAS AN ACCIDENTAL PHOTO OF ST. IGNATIUS HOSPITAL IN COLFAX, WA. THE SETTINGS ON MY CAMERA WERE ALL GOOFED UP, AND I ALMOST TOSSED IT OUT. BUT … A FEW EDITS, AND I RATHER LIKE THE RESULTS.
I love your writing. The addition of the history of the area, both yours and the towns, brings up memories of growing up in a smaller world with a stronger sense of safety and community.
Thank you for sharing!
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Thank you for the kind comments!
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praying for a wonderful homecoming for you! It is lovely that you will be close to your mom, and that you and Mike can get off the hamster wheel over here. Your pictures are making me want to explore the beautiful area where you grew up!
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Thanks, Anne. It really is a beautiful place. The Palouse is a favorite with photographers and those who love to explore.
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Oh … and of course, when you do decide to come explore we have lots of room and will be happy to show you some of the treasures of the countryside! :]
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Thanks for taking us along on your journey backwards and forward, Shelly.
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Thank you, Mitch!
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Small towns have a charm all to their own! Now I want to visit that cafe and see the whole restroom!
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I will make it my mission to get better pics the next time I am there! :] Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
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Colfax???? No way!!!
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Yep! We’re probably the only two WordPress Bloggers who know where it is. :]
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I think you are right!
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My mom grew up in Troy! Do you know where that is?
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I do know Troy! We used to do a lot of our grocery shopping in Moscow and my parents loved to drive, so they would make a loop through Troy and Dreary back around to Potlatch and then eventually home. It seemed eternal to us as kids, but I’m longing to explore it again when we get settled. There was also somewhere near Troy where my mom used to get huckleberries. Beautiful country!
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Wow that is so cool! Yes she is a Troy girl and I grew up in Spokane. So nice to meet an Idaho girl!
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I actually am a Washington girl but our house sat about 100 yards from the Idaho border. (So I guess I can claim both!) My dad was from Spokane; his father taught a Kinman business college and they had a farm in what is now Airway Heights. It is fun to connect with someone who knows and lives in the area.
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Oh duh I forgot Colfax is Washington!
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No worries! Idaho or Washington … it’s all “home” to me!
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Me too!
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Such a cute little town. I used to go to Fonks in Moscow as a kid!
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Looks like we’re both “Palouse Country” girls. I think I originally found your blog because your Palouse Country tags. I grew up in Farmington, north of Colfax and am coming back near there soon. There’s something about the rolling hills of Whitman County and surrounding that is forever alluring.
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